Raising Elite Competitors

She Stopped Chasing the Win and Placed 5th at Nationals (Ada’s Story)

• Coach Bre • Season 2 • Episode 326

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👋🏼 I'm Coach Bre, a mental performance coach for girl athletes, Co-Founder of The Elite Competitor, and a former head volleyball coach and 4-time state champion.

In this episode, our head athlete coach, Coach Saylor, sits down with Ada, our September Athlete of the Month and a freshman foil fencer who placed fifth at nationals. Ada shares the reset routine that stops her mistake spiral and the mindset shift that turned three rough days into her best fencing.

If your daughter dwells on one mistake until it turns into five, Ada's story will feel familiar. She used to replay a lost point all the way through the bout, and now she resets on the walk back to the line.

Three days into nationals, the pressure she was putting on herself to win was the thing holding her back. Then she sprained her ankle mid-bout, decided to fence for herself instead of the results, and had her best event of the week.

What You'll Learn:
✅ The reset routine Ada uses on the walk back after losing a point
✅ Why putting pressure on herself to win made her fence worse
✅ How she kept a sprained ankle at nationals from turning into a spiral
✅ The nightly 3-2-1 BRAVE and journaling habit she uses after practice
✅ Her advice for any athlete who doubts herself under pressure

💬 Moms, comment below: What does your daughter do in the first minute after she makes a mistake?

P.S. A few stats worth knowing:
➡️ Process goals (focusing on what she can control) had the largest effect on sport performance, while outcome goals like winning had the smallest (Williamson et al., International Review of Sport and Exercise Psychology, 2022)
➡️ Across 15 sports and 800 athletes, those who used a pre-performance routine outperformed those who didn't (Rupprecht, Tran & Gröpel, International Review of Sport and Exercise Psychology, 2021)
➡️ Visualization paired with physical practice improved performance more than physical practice alone (Simonsmeier et al., International Review of Sport and Exercise Psychology, 2021)

The Raising Elite Competitors podcast and YouTube channel is hosted by The Elite Competitor and is dedicated to helping sports moms strengthen their daughter's mental game and confidence in order to help her perform her best when it matters most.

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